Being QUIET

The catch-up letter for today is “Q” – as in "quiet."

“Quiet” can be a good thing after a long day at work or with the kiddos. Sometimes it’s merely an elusive goal attainable after everyone else’s bedtime. But for the person who lives that reality day after day, it’s a state of mind. It’s a world where solitude is key; a place of sorting through situations and searching for answers. It’s a setting that houses a need to take time out and relax that cannot be ignored.


The quiet ones are usually found standing on the fringe of all gatherings, taking in bits and pieces of conversations. Most of our friendships begin with people who are outgoing and who usually take the first steps to becoming acquainted. It’s just a matter of God-designed balance in a world that seems to be tilted a little off center when it comes to human nature.

The reality is that we’re just ... you know ... quiet. We live normal lives, marry, have children and grandchildren. We love the Lord. Attend church. Sing (surprisingly much louder than we speak.) We’re content to let others lead in social situations. Those who know us best are allowed to see our dry sense of humor.

We're usually night owls, maybe because of the compulsion to have that "still" time. While we have been called insightful, analytical problem solvers, we must guard against being critical and judgmental.

The Bible addresses quietness in a positive way and sets a standard for each one being the best she can be, whether wonderfully outgoing or simply ... quiet.

“Your adornment must not be merely external ---

braiding the hair, and wearing gold jewelry, or putting on dresses;

But let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the

imperishable quality of a gentile and quiet spirit, which is

precious in the sight of God.”

(I Peter 3:4, NASB)